Pedofile Priests, ISKCON, and Sentimentalized Compassion
A Catholic blog caught my eye this morning: http://www.irishcatholic.ie/site/content/tony-walsh-cha...
The writer suggests that the scandals in the Irish church could be partially attributed to the fact that Catholic priests were dealt with as ‘victims of their impulses’ and therefore deserving compassionate treatment. For this reason none of them were handed over to civil authorities.
Compassion is an extremely important quality, especially for those involved in cultivating a more spiritual life. And it’s true that, in general, we all tend to judge each other harshly, and with prejudice, so the general instruction for all aspiring spiritualists of any religious tradition might be: ‘Be more compassionate – and don’t judge others prematurely.’
But the ancient Greeks said that even virtues, when overly applied (and in the wrong circumstances) can become vices, and do a lot of harm. Compassion is one of the virtues, and its a great virtue; indeed, the great Pandava, Maharaja Yudhisthira, said that applied compassion – mercy – is the king of all the virtues. However, there is a time for compassionate action to become transformed to measures of discipline, so that a person may ultimately improve themselves, and that others may be protected. Not everyone in a group or society can be the recipient of compassion at all times and in all circumstances. Any society – even one based primarily on compassionate dealings – can only properly function when there is justice and discipline. If there is no discipline then continued compassion itself will serve to unbalance that society.
Srila Prabhupada tells the true story of a young man who was never disciplined throughout his childhood and who grew up a quite wayward fellow. He fell into bad company, was arrested by the police for a serious crime, and was about to be sentenced to a term in prison. He was asked if he had anything further to say, and motioned that he would like to speak to his aunt who had raised him. When he leaned over to whisper in her ear, instead of speaking to her he bit off a piece of her ear lobe. As she screamed and the blood ran down her cheek, he called out: “That’s for never disciplining me when I was a child! Now look at the result of your kindness!”
A Catholic priest applies God’s compassionate nature in his dealings with others, and particularly in the Rite of Reconciliation, where the confessions of the supplicant must be dealt with by his representation of the divine compassion of God. Its natural that within the very social institution of compassionate priesthood, that the dealing between priests should reflect the nature of the service they extend to others.
But there does come a time for discipline; which is only compassion applied in a different way. Forgiveness must be there, but that is never a substitute in any society for social discipline.
The whole affair becomes further complicated and problematic due to a Christian theological point which is often used to explain bad behaviour in the lives of otherwise good people: ‘evil influences’. Whether the individual actually believes in the Devil – and many priests these days do not – the notion that bad behaviour arises from forces external to the person can easily turn a perpetrator into a ‘victim’ of outside evil influences. Evil then becomes objectified and externalized.
For the Vaishnavas it is theologically impossible, in the ultimate sense, to talk of a Devil. We don’t have one, at least one that makes it his duty to force good people to commit evil deeds. External influences – yes; and demonic universal forces – yes. But ultimately the responsibility for the action lies with the actor. And the karma-phala - the fruit of actions – will accrue to the actor. Vaishnava theology puts any blame fairly and squarely with the individual, with the family, friends and mental disposition a product of former actions.
ISKCON has seen evil committed within its ranks, and unfortunately is no stranger to the pestilence of paedophile priests. And we, also like the Catholic Church, did not respond to the problem fast enough or in the appropriate way. We also tended to treat our priestly perpetrators as the ‘victims’ and preferred that their rectification be made in private, before God, without the involvement of civil authority. We, like the Catholic Church, could not countenance the embarrassment that the very people put on Earth to represent the Godhead were guilty of such heinous actions. We concluded that any localized incident of child abuse was a temporary aberration that could never – would never – possibly occur again. So nobody talked about it – and nobody saw certain patterns emerging. We will be paying for the consequences of those errors for years to come.
But we don’t have a Devil to blame, so how did we have so much compassion for our own priests that went astray? One reason might be that we are not entirely free from the sentimentalization of western society that has been growing for some decades now. It is quite fashionable in our ‘post-modern’ world to describe someone who resorts to criminal behaviour as a ‘victim’ of their upbringing; or of the educational system; or of their poor mental health; or that they were ‘victimized’ by falling into the wrong company at a crucial point in their life. Now all they need is love and understanding – and compassion – to reverse the process. It makes for everyone in western society understanding themselves as being a victim of someone or something else; and that there is always somebody to blame for their inadequacies.
Our theological loophole – the one that is most often misunderstood and regularly misused – is the verse in the Bhagavad-gita (9.30) where Shri Krishna says that: “Even if one commits the most abominable action, if he is engaged in devotional service he is to be considered saintly….” In his purport to this verse, Srila Prabhupada quotes a verse from the Nrsimha Purana (bhagavati ca harav ananya-ceta..) which explains that just as the spots on the moon do not impede the moonlight, similarly occasional accidental falls from the path of a saintly character do not make a devotee abominable.
But I have also personally sat before Srila Prabhupada when he used a comparable illustration in another way. He was perturbed by an illegality committed by his disciples and wanted to convey to us that we should not break the law in the name of Krishna. He said that if you have a white sheet with some black spots on it, everyone will look at the spots; and that if an ordinary man does something wrong then people may not talk, but that if a man who is supposed to be saintly does something wrong – then everyone will notice and talk about it.
So Bhagavad-gita 9.30 does not mean that a devotee of Krishna can do no wrong. In anticipation of our misuse of this verse Srila Prabhupada concludes: “…No one should take advantage of this verse and commit nonsense and think that he is still a devotee…”
ISKCON is a Society, but it is not separate from society in general. We have our internal rules but we do not have a process of law which runs separate from civil law. We don’t have our Vaishnava equivalent of the Islamic sharia. We are a branch of society, not something apart. If a devotee breaks the law then he must accept the consequences, the same as any member of society. God will forgive him, of course, but along with that state of grace may come social disgrace – and that’s good for the soul too.




Reader Comments:
It is interesting that this
It is interesting that this article defines "wrong-doings" in terms of criminal or unlawful behavior.
There is often a huge difference between what is moral and what is legal. Moral behavior is a personal responsibility, law can not make us behave morally. A crude example might be that it is legal for a person over the age of 21 to consume alcohol in Western countries such as America. However devotees of Krishna do not partake in such an activity. Our code of behaviour is not derived from what the law does or does not permit.
Following the law is just common sense and a decent thing to do if one does not want to end up with a criminal record. Such a record can affect ones reputation not to mention job prospects and relationships with friends and family.
Reading this article I was a little concerned to see "wrong-doings" framed as "illegal activity"- as if the illegality is what makes it wrong. Some activities, even if they were to become legal, are abominable and no person on a Godly path should be partaking in them.
While devotees the world over should be careful to be clean, law-abiding citizens, there is more to being a gentleman or a lady than simply just following the law. We DO have our own codes within ISKCON, our acarayas have laid down these codes in Their written teachings. I will not go into them here- I encourage all readers to go and do some research for themselves as to how saintly people should behave!
Partaking in activities that help us to develop qualities such as compassion and tolerance and avoiding harming others in any way is a start. Indeed there are many completely lawful activities that we can partake in to hurt others. Gossiping and criticizing others are just two examples of legal yet unGodly activities.
As for harming children in ANY way, a saintly person (or any sane and healthy person) does not avoid such activities simply because they are illegal- it is the abominable nature of these actions and an inner morality that stops good people from engaging in them. Therefore I found it a little disappointing to see the article framing deviants as people who break the law. There are many ways to deviate from a healthy and saintly life while still abiding by the law of the State.
I really want to see devotees in Iskcon being more than just "law-abiding" citizens.
it's so easy to speak of
it's so easy to speak of these things in the past tense, but that just still isn't the case.
(http://www.wtrf.com/story.cfm?func=viewstory&storyid=92... )
hare Krsna prabhu, pamho,
hare Krsna prabhu, pamho, thank you for reminding us that we are not sectarian in acknowledging wrong doing and victimisation in the name of God. There was an interesting follow up on your story on RTE 'Would you Believe' today which demonstrated the hierarchal pressures put on members within the Catholic Church to avoid dealing with victims, rather it was seen as protecting fellow priests as God's flock or chosen. We must ensure that we realise, as you pointed out, that we are all equally prone to misplaced compassion. Arjuna was chastised by Krsna for this, although purports point to the nature of the devotee to be compassionate, but this is a misplaced compassion. They are all victims. In child abuse, or any abuse there are no winners. So the discipline and atonement is compassion for the perpetrator while compassion for the abused is to facilitate their healing. They are all Krsna's children and we preach to each equally but the treatment is very different. Even those who deal with it are victims because of the severity of such abomination.
Hare Krishna Kripamoya
Hare Krishna Kripamoya Prabhu,
... Sorry for my broken-english...
Thank you for these sensitive and intelligent comments on punishment and/or forgiveness, overall concerning the delicate issue of children mistreatment. To my sense, this kind of article could give to the people in general an interest in Krishna consciousness. Even if the subject matter seems to put ahead some of our own mistakes, to be able to recognize them in such a strong and sustained way (I mean by scriptures) could give a very good echo of our philosophy. Did you have the possibility to send this text to the journal or to the author of the original article ?
Hare Krishna! Excellent
Hare Krishna!
Excellent article Prabhu! Well balanced and fair. Thanks so much!
thank you krimamoya prabhu
thank you krimamoya prabhu